The Rachel Maddow Show, Transcript 01/14/13
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And thanks to you at home for joining us this hour. Go Pats!
All right. Just before 3:00 this afternoon, the Office of the Vice
President of the United States tweeted out this picture. This picture.
This is the final meeting that we know Vice President Biden took in
Washington, and as part of his big high profile effort to put together
proposals for policy reform after the Newtown Elementary School massacre
There is a lot going on in this photo. The vice president is there
obviously in shirt-sleeves on the right side of your screen.
Immediately to his right, wearing glasses there, that of course is
Secretary of Homeland Security Janet Napolitano. The White House just
announced today that she will be staying on for a second term.
Now, the Department of Homeland Security is not old enough that there
are traditions yet as to how long people stay on once they have the
secretary job. But this will be the first time that somebody has kept the
gig for two terms, if Secretary Napolitano stays throughout the president`s
term in office.
Of course, to become homeland security secretary in the first place,
Janet Napolitano had to step down from her old job, which was being
governor of Arizona. We just passed the two-year anniversary of the mass
shooting in Arizona in Tucson.
This past week, the congresswoman who was almost killed in that
shooting, Gabby Gifford, she and her husband, astronaut Mark Kelly,
announced a major new effort to raise $20 million for a new PAC to compete
with the NRA and to support a pro reform agenda.
Part of the political power there is not just that Gabby Giffords was
nearly killed in that mass shooting in Tucson, but also that she and her
husband are both gun owners and out and proud supporters of the Second
Amendment. But they`re nevertheless saying there needs to be reform. In
fact, are saying that respect for the Second Amendment and reform are not
Well, today in Arizona, the person who became governor once Janet
Napolitano went to Washington to become homeland secretary, the governor
after Janet Napolitano, Jan Brewer, gave her state of the state address,
regardless of the Tucson anniversary, regardless of Gabby Giffords,
regardless of Arizona`s own history with gun violence, Jan Brewer`s own
treatment of that issue today in her State of the State address was that
she emphatically would not be infringing on the right of law-abiding gun
owners. That`s all she had to say.
In D.C., though, there is the previous Arizona Governor Janet
Napolitano at the right hand of the vice president in this meeting about
possible reform at the federal level. Now immediately to Janet
Napolitano`s right, further down the table, that is Congresswoman Elizabeth
Esty. She is a brand-new member of Congress. She represents Connecticut`s
fifth district, and that includes Newtown and Sandy Hook.
Now, overall, in terms of the main composition of the photos, you can
see from the way the whole photo is set up, the person who is talking, who
everybody in the picture is paying attention to is the guy sort of out of
focus on the left-hand side of the photo. That is John Dingell,
Congressman John Dingell of Dearborn, Michigan.
Congressman Dingle is 86 years old. He is in his 30th term in
Congress. A few months into this term for him in June of this year, he
will become the longest serving member of Congress in American history.
Nobody since the dawn of the republic will have served as much time in
Congress as John Dingell as of this June.
John Dingell is a Democrat. He has been his entire career as far as I
know. He is also a staunch proponent of gun rights. He is a former board
member of the National Rifle Association.
Now, what`s going on in this photo from the vice president`s office
today is that John Dingell is speaking to this whole group of cabinet
officials and the vice president himself and his fellow House Democrats,
and he is speaking to them as one of the 12 vice-chairman of the Democrats
Gun Violence Prevention Task Force in the House.
This group was set up by Nancy Pelosi last month to be the voice of
congressional Democrats on reform. And it tells you something about the
diversity of the Democratic Party on this issue, right, to be able to have
Nancy Pelosi, who has the exact position on guns that you think she has, to
have a Nancy Pelosi drafting leadership help on this issue from, among
others, John Dingell, a former board member of the NRA, a former A-plus
rated NRA legislator.
But for all of Congressman Dingell`s NRA bona fides, if you think that
is the only thing worth knowing about him, you are missing a big part of
the picture. Six days after the Newtown shootings last month, Congressman
Dingell`s wife, Debbie Dingell, published a very personal op-ed in “The
And this is who it opens. This is the very first line of the op-ed.
“When I was about to start eighth grade, my father almost shot my mother.
It was another of their many ugly fights. I got between them literally and
tried to grab the gun.
I will never forget that night, the shouting, the fear, the raw terror
that we all would die. My brother and my sisters, along with my parents.
My calling for help, but the police not coming. My parents were important
people in town. My mother running out of the house.
I locked my brothers and sisters in a bedroom and push a bed against
the door. My father broke in, took the door off the hinges and pulled the
phone from the wall. He took the knobs off all the doors so no one could
get out and no one could get in.
We survived that occasion physically. Emotionally, I`m not sure.”
She goes on to say, “I don`t have all the answers, but I know two
things. Decades later, I still feel the fear of that night when I was 12
years old. And while ordinary Americans do not need access to assault
weapons, I also know that banning all guns won`t fix the problem. We need
a new dialogue that does not pit people against each other.”
That`s Congressman John Dingell`s wife Debbie Dingell reflecting on
her harrowing experience as a child and how that informs her family`s
thinking on this issue. It`s a complex issue, and there is complex
thinking about this issue.
Now, the man immediately to Congressman John Dingell`s left in the
vice president`s photo today, the man who frankly is looking at John
Dingell intently enough that it looks like he might set him on fire if he
keeps that stare going on too long, that is Congressman Mike Thompson. He
is the overall chair of this task force for the congressional Democrats.
Mike Thompson is a rural California Democrat. He is a wounded Vietnam
combat veteran. He is a gun owner himself. He says on the day of the
Newtown shootings last month, when he learned of the shootings, he had been
out that morning duck hunting.
(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)
REP. MIKE THOMPSON (D), CALIFORNIA: First and foremost, I`m a gun
owner, and I`ve been a gun owner as long as I can remember and hunted all
my life. And I`m a strong proponent of the Second Amendment. But, you
know, I`m also a parent and a grandparent. And I know that we can own guns
and use guns safely and properly.
(END VIDEO CLIP)
MADDOW: Congressman Mike Thompson speaking today at an event with
Rahm Emanuel, the former White House chief of staff and the former
Democratic congressman and the current mayor of Chicago.
Mayor Emanuel today announcing that Chicago will seek to divest its
pension funds, which are big investment vehicles, those are a lot of money,
he will seek to divest them from all gun manufacturers. This follows the
lead of California`s state teachers pension fund, which has done much the
same thing. Mayor Emanuel says that he will try to get other big city
mayors to follow suit.
Now, there are all sorts of new political pressures and new political
tactics, and unlikely political combinations and conversations happening
right now on this issue, on the one-month anniversary of the Newtown
Today at the White House, President Obama held what will be his final
press conference of his first term as president. And even though his
opening statement was all about the debt ceiling, the first question he got
from the press today was about guns.
(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)
BARACK OBAMA, PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES: The vice president and
number of members of my cabinet went through a very thorough process over
the last month, meeting with a lot of stakeholders in this, including the
NRA, listened to proposals from all quarters, and they`ve presented me now
with a list of sensible common sense steps that can be taken to make sure
that the kinds of violence we saw at Newtown doesn`t happen again.
I`m going to be meeting with the vice president today. I expect to
have a fuller presentation later in the week to give people some specifics
about what I think we need to do.
My starting point is not to worry about the politics. My starting
point is to focus on what makes sense, what works, what should we be doing
to make sure that our children are safe.
(END VIDEO CLIP)
MADDOW: The president and his press conference today didn`t announce
this as if it were news, but this is – this is news what he just said.
Remember, when President Obama asked Joe Biden to head up this effort
looking at potential reform, remember, he initially said the effort was
supposed to produce recommendations by the end of January.
And so, it was big news last week when we heard that Vice President
Biden was actually planning to report to the president early. He wasn`t
waiting until the end of January. He was going to report in mid-January.
He was planning on reporting hi recommendations by tomorrow, by Tuesday.
But then today at this press conference, we learned that actually, the
vice president has already made his report to the president today – the
vice president pushing up the time frame yet again. And President Obama
saying today that he will make further remarks later this week telling us
what is going to happen next, given those recommendations.
This is faster than the president even said it was going to happen.
And he initially said it was going to happen fast. Speed it turns out is
central to the strategy. And that is turning out to be true both in
Washington and in the states that are moving ahead.
As we speak, New York state is closing in on a deal. Earlier this
evening, it was said to be 99 percent done. The state planning on enacting
reform suggested by Governor Andrew Cuomo and agreed to by the bipartisan
In Maryland, Maryland Governor Martin O`Malley, and Colorado, the
governor there, John Hickenlooper, in Connecticut, Governor Dan Malloy,
have all announced ambitious legislative proposals within their own states.
Delaware Governor Jack Markell announced legislation to curb gun violence
in his state at a press conference today.
And there was the divestment announcement today from Chicago Mayor
Today in Newtown, Connecticut, some of the parents from the children
killed in the Newtown massacre announced that they are taking their own way
forward, which is not built on speed, but is meant to be its own
constructive, inclusive, ignore the extremes the way forward.
Tonight, we have an exclusive interview on this show with the parents
of one of the little boys who was killed at Sandy Hook. This is not the
kind of interview that we normally do on this show, that I normally do on
any circumstance. It was a remarkable experience, and I hope you will stay
with us to watch that tonight. We`ve got that coming up.
We`ve also got the attorney general of the Delaware, the vice
president`s son, Beau Biden, joining us live to announce the measures he
announced in his state today.
There is a lot going on. Stay with us.
MADDOW: The vice president is not the only Biden in the middle of the
gun reform debate. His son Beau Biden is taking on assault weapons and
other reforms as attorney general in Delaware. And Beau Biden joins us
(BEGIN VIDEO CLIPS)
DAVID GREGORY, NBC NEWS: After the Connecticut massacre, what`s the
solution? What kind of restrictions should be put in place?
COLIN POWELL, FORMER SECRETARY OF STATE: It`s a very complex issue,
and I`m anxious to see what Vice President Biden is going to come up with,
because, you know, you have deranged people throughout the country,
unfortunately. And they`re a part of the problem. You have to be deranged
to pick up a Bushmaster or some weapon and go into a school and kill
people. So how do we deal with that part of the problem?
Is there an issue with violence on television, violence in our games?
That has to be looked at.
With respect to guns themselves, I`m a gun owner. I`m a believer in
the Second Amendment. I know the amendment rather thoroughly. I know the
issue of a well-regulated militia.
But at the same time, we also have a responsibility under the
Constitution and the Bill of Rights to protect our people. So, surely, we
should be able to find some meeting of the minds on this issue. Why can`t
we test everybody, or have everybody run through a screen to make sure that
they`re a responsible person before they`re allowed to buy a weapon, either
in a store or in a private transaction? Why can`t we do a better job of
And with respect to assault weapons, I see no need for Bushmasters in
the hands of an individual person who might be deranged. You want the fire
a Bushmaster, go out to a range and fire a Bushmaster.
But whether or not it`s in our overall interest to have these kinds of
weapons in the hands of Americans who might not be responsible is a
question we have to answer. How much are we really giving up if we said
that this kind of weapon should not be readily available to anybody who
wants to buy one?
UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: Does assault weapons like the Bushmaster have a
place in our society here in America? What is your position, especially
given the recent events?
GEN. STANLEY MCCHRYSTAL, U.S. ARMY (RET): Yes, I spent a career
carrying typically they`re an M-16, and then later an M4 Carbine. And an
M4 Carbine fires a .223 caliber round which is 5.65 millimeter at about
3,000 feet per second.
When it hits a human body, the effects are devastating. It`s designed
to do that. And that`s what our soldiers ought to carry.
I personally don`t think there is any need for that kind of weaponry
on the streets, and particularly around the schools in America.
UNIDENTIFIED MALE: What is your message to the NRA, to members of the
House Judiciary Committee, Republicans, who say this isn`t a topic for
MCCHRYSTAL: I think my message is we`ve got to look at the situation
in America. The number of people in America killed by firearms is
extraordinary compared to other nations. And I don`t think we`re a blood
thirsty culture. And so, I think that we need to look at everything we can
do to safeguard our people.
(END VIDEO CLIPS)
MADDOW: General Stanley McChrystal, former commander of U.S. forces
in Afghanistan and before him General Colin Powell, former chairman of the
Joint Chiefs, former secretary of state.
There is something about hearing men who have careers like theirs
espousing views like those that sort of calls the threatened masculinity
bluff of the particularly agro fringe of the anti-gun regulation world and
the industries that stoke that.
Today, one of the highest profile Iraq war veterans in the country,
the top law enforcement officer in his state, Delaware`s Attorney General
Beau Biden joined the McChrystal and Powell side of the argument in his
official capacity when he and Delaware Governor Jack Markell announced a
five-point plan for gun reform.
(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)
BEAU BIDEN (D), DELAWARE ATTORNEY GENERAL: You know, I wear a
different uniform. And the assault weapon and military-style weapon that
is assigned to me resides in an armory under lock and key, because it`s
needed only for one place, and that is Iraq or Afghanistan or where the
commander-in-chief, this commander-in-chief of the Delaware National Guard,
or the commander-in-chief of our United States Armed Forces sends soldiers,
sailors, airmen and marines.
These are weapons of mass destruction that are meant for battle.
(END VIDEO CLIP)
MADDOW: Joining us now live is the attorney general for the state of
Delaware, Beau Biden.
Mr. Attorney General, thank you very much for being with us tonight.
BIDEN: Happy to be on, Rachel.
MADDOW: I wanted to play that clip of you mentioning your service in
the military at the press conference today just because I wanted to hear in
your own words why you raised that issue and how – how your time in the
service informs your thinking on this issue?
BIDEN: Well, I`ve been in the military now for nearly ten years. And
for most of my career, I had an M-16 assigned to me. I now am assigned an
M-9, a .9 millimeter pistol.
And, you know, General McChrystal and General Powell said it best,
these are weapons that are designed to protect the soldier or the military
personnel, do damage. And it`s what we take into battle. They`re made for
And – but they`re not made for our neighborhoods and our communities.
And so, that`s why I came out today, joining my governor and our lieutenant
governor, you know, calling for among other things a ban similar to the one
in 1994 that passed the United States Congress to ban assault weapons.
They simply don`t have a place in our neighborhoods. They`re made for
the battlefield. If you want one, you know, maybe a good way to go is to
sign up for the National Guard or join the military. But I don`t see any
utility for them in our neighborhoods and in our streets of my city.
MADDOW: Looking at the new gun control and gun reform proposals in
various states since Newtown, including New York and Maryland and Colorado
and Connecticut and your state of Delaware – should we see a single
message that these states are sending to the country?
Obviously, in these states, maybe reform is more possible than in
states that are more bright red in their political affiliation. But is
there something that the country should understand from these states where
it might really be possible to move ahead?
BIDEN: Well, I think the most important thing, the thing that I`m
most hopeful about are the five pieces of legislation we put before our
state today, our governor leading the charge, Jack Markell, is the
universal background check.
As you know and you have covered on your show in great detail, in
1968, in the wake of the violence of that year, the United States Congress
passed the Gun Control Act, which basically said that there are seven
categories at that time. There are now 10 categories of – categories of
people that are prohibited from the ability to possess firearms, that they
basically lost their Second Amendment right, which I believe in, and they
And that category includes people who have been convicted of felonies,
that are fugitives from justice. In fact, federal law since 1968 says
people who are using or addicted to drugs are prohibited from possessing
firearms. Those who are adjudicated mentally ill.
The most important thing we can do as a nation and state by state is
making sure there is a universal background check. Since its inception,
and that is the nix system, the national background system with the Brady
Law, there has been approximately 2 million people that are prohibited
persons that have tried to purchase firearms who have been stopped. Nearly
48 percent of those people have been convicted felons.
I think it`s one of the most important thing we can do. I think it`s
a thing that is going the pass in this state. I think that`s why you see
Governors O`Malley and Cuomo and others going forward on that.
But it`s most essential, most important for the United States Congress
to act on that, because you need uniformity in all 50 states to adopt this,
to make it really protect our citizenry the way it needs to.
MADDOW: Delaware Attorney General Beau Biden, with your father
helming this issue at the federal level, and you taking this up along with
your governor and the lieutenant governor in Delaware, is there something
that you understand from this sort of unique position that you`re in both
family and work-wise about the division of labor here, about what is need
for country versus what`s needed at the state level?
BIDEN: Well, I think you`re seeing governors act because, you know,
they`re out there talking day to day with the citizens in their state.
But I think you see as you covered in the top of your show, the
president of the United States and the vice president are moving very
quickly on this. They`re going to get legislation before Congress to get
them to act. I encourage the Congress to do that. I know the
administration is moving very rapidly on that.
I think that has to be kind of a three-part strategy here, and I think
that`s what you see being developed at the White House. Number one is,
what can we do about gun violence? Number two, how do we address school
safety? And number three, how do we deal with the mental health issue?
Because behind many of the shooters, from Ronald Reagan`s would-be
assassin, all the way through what happened, the tragedy in Connecticut 30
days ago has been someone with some mental illness and derangement.
So I think we have to have, for instance, a very robust discussion. I
anticipate, or I`m looking forward to seeing the task force suggests, a
discussion for instance, Rachel, on whether the category of probative
people who have been adjudicated as mentally ill, that`s what the law says,
essentially, they`re prohibited, whether or not that should be broadened.
For instance, should a person who has a diagnosis from a psychiatrist
as being a paranoid schizophrenic be able to go into Wal-Mart tomorrow
morning and buy a weapon? Under the current law, without having been
adjudicated as mentally ill in a court of law, under federal law, they`d be
able to do that. We have to have a serious discussion whether or not that
category needs to be expanded.
And what you`re going to do is bring in a whole group of people who
have very interested on that. You`re going to have NRA interested in that.
People have interested in privacy concerns interested in that. It`s part
of the reason I`m straight forward about this is why that category of
citizens that have been adjudicated mentally ill, that part of the database
has not been populated to the extent it should be because there is obvious
concerns on the part of the people who have been adjudicated as such to not
be in a computer somewhere because they don`t want their privacy invaded.
So there is very complicated issue here is that need to honor the
Second Amendment, but honor other pieces of the Constitution that sprinkle
throughout the Constitution is rights of privacy and whatever amendment you
look like essentially in a Bill of Rights. So there is competing interests
here that have to be balanced. I know that the task force has been very
thoughtful about doing that. I look forward to seeing how that actually
MADDOW: Delaware Attorney General Beau Biden, thank you so much for
joining us tonight. Keep us apprised, sir. Thank you.
BIDEN: Thank you.
All right. The president`s second term starts this weekend. What the
second term is going to look like from his own administration`s perspective
– we`ve got some big news on that today.
Plus, we on this show have a big exclusive interview tonight still to
Please stay with us.
(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)
DAVID WHEELER, FATHER OF BEN WHEELER: I`m David Wheeler. This is my
wife Francine Lobas (ph) Wheeler. And this is our son Ben. We are
parents, just two of 149 million American parents.
Parent is also defined as a point of origin. My wife and I have spent
much of the past month rededicating ourselves to the task of being the best
possible parents for our surviving son Nate. What we have recently come to
realize is that we are not done being the best possible parents we can be
for Ben. Not by a very long measure.
If there is something in our society that needs to be fixed, clearly
healed or resolved, that resolution needs a point of origin. It needs
I would respectfully request that every parent in this country who
hears these words simply pause for a moment and think. Ask yourself, what
is it worth doing to keep your children safe? What is it worth to you?
What is it worth doing? What is worth doing?
(END VIDEO CLIP)
MADDOW: One month after the mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary
School, today some of the parents who lost their children that day spoke
publicly for the first time. They announced the formation of a new group
and a new campaign to contribute their leadership to what they want to be a
national long-term response.
David Wheeler is the father who explained today how he and his wife
Francine see the possibility to speak publicly now about what they`re going
through as part of their ongoing parenting responsibilities to their son
Ben, who died at Sandy Hook.
David and Francine Wheeler sit down with me for an extended interview,
MADDOW: One of the first graders who was killed at Sandy Hook
Elementary School a month ago today was 6-year-old Benjamin, Ben Wheeler.
Ben was in first grade. He was athletic and mischievous and outgoing.
He was funny. He had good comic timing. He also had perfect pitch.
Ben was 6 and he was in the first grade. His older brother Nate is 9.
He was at the same school in the fourth grade. Nate survived that day at
Sandy Hook, but Ben did not.
And today, Ben and Nate`s parents, David and Francine Wheeler, agreed
to sit down with me in Newtown.
This is one of the first chances we have had as a country to hear in-
depth from parents who lost a kid that day.
MADDOW: David and Francine, thank you for wanting to talk.
D. WHEELER: Sure.
MADDOW: I was sitting today sort of in the back of the press
conference, and you guys were up on the stage at the beginning. And at
that one moment when you all stood together and we could all see that
you`re all holding pictures of your kids, I felt like it was a wave washing
over everybody who was there. It was so powerful.
Can you just tell me about your decision to do this? Tell me about
what it meant to have Ben`s picture with you while you wanted to talk
FRANCINE WHEELER, MOTHER OF BEN WHEELER: That was my idea about the
picture, because I just felt that he is still here, you know. And he needs
to be part of the group as well as the other children, you know, and the
teachers, because we made a promise to him to be the best parents we could
And so I wanted him to be there, so he knew I could protect him and
include him even though it`s his spirit with us and not his body anymore.
MADDOW: David, when you talked about redoubling your effort to be the
best parents that you can be to Nate, to your surviving son.
D. WHEELER: Right.
MADDOW: But also needing to be the best parent you can be to Ben
percent now, what did you mean by that? What does that mean?
D. WHEELER: Well, in the past month, and immediately after, you know,
one of the things that hits you like a ton of bricks is your
responsibility. And it hits you in ways that are unexpected. It hits you
in ways that are not necessarily helpful.
It approaches – it comes to you the issue of being able to protect
your children and to be – I mean, that`s our only job as parents, you
know, let them leave the nest. Get them so that they can leave the nest.
That`s all you have to do.
And then something like this happens and calls that entire concept
into question. So, you got to deal with that on a whole bunch of levels.
You have to figure out how you feel about all of those things.
And once we had worked through some of the less pleasant – and we`re
not entirely through that. Don`t get me wrong. But once we had sort of
come to terms with those, it occurred to me that we`re still his parents.
We`re never not going to be his parents. And that`s part of the process.
And that wasn`t always the case, you know. People react in very
different ways. And if you shut it down and you close the doors, and you
pretend that what happened didn`t happen, or you tried to remove that
person from the tree, the long-term consequences of that kind of reaction
are devastating, and I mean generationally devastating.
And that`s never going to happen in our family. And we would never do
that to Ben. And it made me realize that our job for him is to continue to
do, to be the greatest parents we can be, because as I said, we`re never
going to stop being Ben`s parents. And that`s complimented and made more
difficult by being the best parents we can be for Nate, who has his own
F. WHEELER: Yes. Nate said right after Ben died, he said, this is
tough, but he said, “You promised you would protect us.”
D. WHEELER: Yes.
F. WHEELER: And I did promise him that.
D. WHEELER: Sure.
F. WHEELER: You know?
D. WHEELER: Yes.
F. WHEELER: So what do I say to him? I can`t change what happened.
I know it wasn`t our fault. We just sent him to school. But I`ll do
whatever I can to help protect Nate and protect Ben`s spirit.
D. WHEELER: Yes.
MADDOW: It`s only been a month, and you had a decision to make about
whether to stay private, or whether to be publicly available to talk about
these issues, not just now, but at this event today. When you made that
decision to be public today, to take part in this conversation the way
you`re talking about in this larger way to continue the sense of
responsibility in a way that involves the rest of us and not just your own
family, does that feel like an additional burden on top of the grief that
you are dealing with, or does that feel constructive to you in terms of how
you feel just as people?
F. WHEELER: In the moment, it feels OK because I have to go with my
gut, and when David said I really want to make this statement in my gut,
which I think sometimes is Ben, you know, said, yes, yes.
So, right now, I feel it`s the right thing. It was not the right
thing the day after he died.
D. WHEELER: Not at all.
F. WHEELER: And that was hard, because everybody was pouring out
their love, and I couldn`t even respond yet. And I still can`t a lot of
D. WHEELER: Sure.
F. WHEELER: But I also feel that you have to go with your gut.
That`s who I am. And I just hear him. I hear him saying, “Mama, I love
you, I want you to live.” And this is how I`m going to live.
MADDOW: I know you guys have taken steps to close off the news.
D. WHEELER: Yes.
F. WHEELER: We haven`t seen much at all.
MADDOW: Which is understandable, even under the best of
Do you have a sense, though, maybe you have a better sense of not
watching it through the media filter of how much the country has changed
since the day that Ben died? Do you – I`m telling you that my assessment
is that we are having a different reaction to this as a country than we
ever had to any other mass shooting. Do you guys know that? Do you feel
D. WHEELER: I think we do in a couple of ways. It`s very, very
comforting to hear you say that, for one thing.
I – we recognized it – we didn`t get our mail for two and a half
weeks. Our mail was diverted to a warehouse in town and held because there
was just too much of it. You would not have – it would have been a little
fleet of trucks every day. And they couldn`t do that.
So they held it. And then they delivered it in boxes. And we had –
F. WHEELER: Beautiful letters from children.
D. WHEELER: So many letters. And they`re from all over the world.
So when we started combing through that stuff, which only happened
last week, we started to get a sense, a real palpable, tangible sense of
how big this – how big this response is, and much these people feel about
this and strongly feel about it.
F. WHEELER: Our close ones have been protecting us, you know. They
haven`t even –
D. WHEELER: But from every corner of the globe.
F. WHEELER: We hear. And I think the children`s letters are my
D. WHEELER: Yes. They`re pretty great. They`re pretty great.
F. WHEELER: We haven`t shown them to Nate yet, most of them, although
Nate has gotten his fair share of mail.
D. WHEELER: He has.
F. WHEELER: I want him to some day be able to read them too.
D. WHEELER: Some people have written some amazing letters to me,
wonderful, wonderful letters, that I think are going to help him as he goes
through this, because as I said before, he is in this for the long haul.
This is with him forever. And how he deals with that, how we sort of help
him deal with that going forward is a big, big chore.
But he is – you know, he`ll get there. And –
F. WHEELER: He is grieving.
D. WHEELER: Oh, yes, no question. There is no question. He is doing
it his way.
F. WHEELER: And he also was there. So, you know, he has a lot he is
MADDOW: What grade is Nate in?
F. WHEELER: Fourth.
MADDOW: He is in fourth, and Ben was first.
D. WHEELER: Yes. He was in the gym at the time.
F. WHEELER: He did tell us one day he would write a book about this.
D. WHEELER: He did say he was going to write a book.
F. WHEELER: I believe him. Yes.
D. WHEELER: So, we`re talking to publishers now.
MADDOW: David and Francine Wheeler who lost their 6-year-old Ben at
Sandy Hook Elementary School last month. They were speaking with me today
in Newtown, Connecticut.
There is more. We`ll be right back.
MADDOW: Today in Newtown, Connecticut, at the announcement of this
group, the Sandy Hook Promise, the founders of the group and the parents of
kids who were killed at Sandy Hook Elementary talked about how they cannot
stand for the response to this tragedy to be the same short flurry of
attention that we are used to followed by the same long-term nothing that
we are used to.
I sat down today with David and Francine Wheeler, who lost one of
their two sons, 6-year-old Ben at Sandy Hook.
MADDOW: There`s been a lot of focus from Newtown United, which is now
Sandy Hook Promise, on the process of not rushing, not taking political
stands, not giving thumbs-up or thumbs-down to any policies that are
Meanwhile, policy debate is moving fast.
D. WHEELER: Yes.
MADDOW: How do you two feel about that, that emphasis on process on
the conversation on being deliberate, slow about it?
D. WHEELER: Well, we have to do this. And I say we casually,
because, I – you know, I`m – I should assume now that I`m part of this
group, I suppose. I think that`s safe to say.
But the core members and the executive group, they feel very, very
strongly that this approach that they take has to be different. You heard
Tim Makris say it, that it can`t be the same thing that has done in the
past because it hasn`t worked. It hasn`t worked.
So the policy debate may move quickly, but we all know that
legislation does not move quickly. And we know that government doesn`t
move quickly. And we know that culture and societal change probably –
well, not probably, moves much slower than that. It`s glacial.
So there may be quick moves in legislation here. There may be quick
policy announcements or quick policy stances taken by lots of different
people. But we`re talking about – what this group is talking about is
change that may outlast a great number of legislators` careers. So this
may good through a couple of generations of people in positions of
And if that`s what it takes, that`s what it takes, because we`re all
in it for that long. So I`m not concerned. I don`t concern myself with
statements about – well, this can`t happen now, or we have enough votes
for this or that, or we can protect this or that. Or we can protect votes
for this and that, in terms of whatever policy is available.
Look back at our history as our country, look back at the safety
measures we put in place to make our lives better in this country, look at
seatbelts and airbags, and, you know, any number of things. Those – it
never happens overnight, you know?
F. WHEELER: And the other part is we`re still really grieving.
D. WHEELER: Sure.
F. WHEELER: So a lot of this – the stuff that has been happening
with legislation and policy, and I wouldn`t speak for you, David. But I`m
not there yet. I`m not there.
D. WHEELER: No.
F. WHEELER: I`m here. You know? That is where I am.
D. WHELEER: Yes, I don`t – I don`t profess to know anything about
D. WHEELER: I know about Ben.
F. WHEELER: And I`m always going to talk about Ben forever, forever.
MADDOW: As the country continues to respond to what happened at Sandy
Hook, we have talked ourselves into the idea that the way to respond as a
country is policy response. And we`re now starting to find out what the
policy response is going to be. And that`s happening quickly at the state
level in a number of states. And it is happening at the federal level.
That is what we, the country, have decided is the right way to
respond. From – is there something you want the country to be doing other
than policy? Is there something that you need from the country, as parents
of Ben, that you have not gotten or that you want or that you could hope
D. WHEELER: Well, policy is shaped by a relatively small group of
D. WHEELER: So I think what we want is for larger groups of people
than policy-makers so just keep talking. Because those are the groups that
will then affect the policy-makers.
I think policy is an incredibly important part of this response, but
when we say policy we have to be very careful to make sure we`re talking
about very, very many different kinds of policies. Public security, and
safety, mental health, the three prongs that you heard today.
So yes, policy is crucial, and if it can be affected quickly,
terrific. It better be efficient, and well-thought out, because when it is
not it`s a rabbit hole.
But what I think I want the country to do is just don`t stop thinking
about this. Just keep thinking about this. Keep this in your head, talk
to each other. Talk to your teachers, talk to your kids, talk to your
fellow parents. Talk to your friends.
You know, and I don`t mean to over use the cliche, but have the
conversation. It`s not enough to turn off the news and walk away from the
TV and go, “Oh, that stinks.” Not this time.
F. WHEELER: And it is not just Republican, Democratic, independent.
That is the thing that has just blown my mind. That I feel like it is
really not about your party right now.
D. WHEELER: It`s not, it`s not.
F. WHEELER: I really feel like it is about our children. So I would
say that at this moment, that I – my gut is telling me that we have to
continue to talk about the children. They are the future of this country.
And it is going to – you know, they`re going to be the next set of
And they would want the set of things we want, protection and safety.
And you know. I think that`s –
D. WHEELER: You know there are much larger cultural and societal
issues here. I – we can`t even begin to address those because they`re
just so enormous. But you have to start somewhere. You have to start
And I love the idea that this group has put forward saying that Sandy
Hook, you know, in Newtown, will be remembered not for the tragedy but for
what started here. That`s crucial.
MADDOW: The change that started here?
D. WHEELER: Yes, exactly, exactly.
MADDOW: Francine and David, thank you, again, for being willing to
talk with anybody who you don`t have to talk to – and certainly, with us.
Will you stay in touch?
D. WHEELER: Yes.
MADDOW: Thank you, guys, thanks.
F. WHEELER: Thanks, Rachel.
MADDOW: Sandyhookpromise.org. You should go there and check it out.
David and Francine Wheeler, the amazing parents of 6-year-old Ben and
9-year-old Nate. Ben was killed at Sandy Hook Elementary School a month
ago today. I`ll be right back.
F. WHEELER: This has some of Ben`s ashes in it. And we had recently
– I might have told you this, we had recently discovered he had perfect
D. WHEELER: She was at a recital, and they were at the cafeteria, she
stops to talk. She said he sings a note –
F. WHEELER: Yes, because I don`t have perfect pitch.
D. WHEELER: And he finds it, he just –
F. WHEELER: Yes, he understood intervals and –
D. WHEELER: Yes, that was amazing.
F. WHELLER: And there is one thing that my father always says, my dad
would always say Ben is going to do amazing things. And I always say, now,
I just didn`t know it was going to be in his death. I thought it was going
to be in his life. So, he is going to do amazing things now.
D. WHEELER: Yes
F. WHEELER: Right?
D. WHEELER: Sure, and his classmates, absolutely.
MADDOW: Through you, and through their memory?
F. WHEELER: The memory.
MADDOW: That is beautiful.
F. WHEELER: Thank you.
MADDOW: The shape of President Obama`s second term administration
became clearer today. Lots of moving – lots of moving parts and some
important not moving parts in today`s news.
But here is the state of play as of today: Tom Vilsack, the member of
the cabinet most likely to be mistaken for a wrestler, in a good way, Tom
Vilsack will be staying on as secretary of agriculture. We learned that
And as we mentioned at the top of the show, we also learned today that
Janet Napolitano will stay on for the second term as secretary of homeland
In terms of the way the deck shuffling, we also know now that the
Environmental Protection Administration – Environmental Protection Agency
administrator, excuse me, Lisa Jackson, and the labor secretary, Hilda
Solis, they are both leaving, but we do not yet know who the nominees are
going to be to replace either of them.
So this is the sort of second round of announcements for the cabinet,
the president`s second term officially begins Sunday at noon when he is
When the president was asked today about whether there is enough
diversity in his cabinet, he responded by saying that people should stop
rushing to judgment, he said he isn`t even done appointing people yet –
which is true, which is exciting, particularly if you are the kind of
person who has very strong feelings about the secretary of agriculture, and
you can name who he is off the top of your head, some like NFL draft, some
people like cabinet nominees. But deep down, we are all the same.
Now, it`s time for “THE LAST WORD WITH LAWRENCE O`DONNELL”.
Thanks for being with us tonight.
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