There’s quite a bit in that thinking in this LDS “Sexual Purity” section, but if I may play devil’s advocate (ahem), at least there’s room to work with – be chaste, get married, and then go forth with God. But what if you’re lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgendered, and can’t get married in the Mormon church? What does “Sexual Purity” say to young, gay Mormons? This:
Homosexual and lesbian behavior is a serious sin. If you find yourself struggling with same-gender attraction or you are being persuaded to participate in inappropriate behavior, seek counsel from your parents and bishop. They will help you.
That’s why the “It Gets Better” video above – the latest in the series originated by Seattle columnist Dan Savage – is so newsworthy. Released recently by 22 Brigham Young University students, the video – which is now going viral – offers a look at what it’s like actually being young, gay and Mormon, most notably the incredible struggles required to reconcile one’s sexuality with one’s faith:
In the video, several BYU students confess that they considered suicide because they didn’t think they could be Mormon and gay.
“In our religion, there is a lot of misunderstanding and ugliness about homosexuality,” said Kendall Wilcox, a former BYU faculty member who produced the video and serves as an adviser to the school’s unofficial gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender support group. “We wanted to send this message that God loves you just as you are.”
Keep in mind: at BYU, a Mormon university, openly stating one’s sexual orientation was grounds for expulsion under the University’s strict honor code as recently as 2007. Three years later, in 2010, BYU lifted its ban on the “advocacy of homosexuality.” But don’t get it twisted: not only is the video not without its Mormon critics outside the university, it’s a brave act because while BYU is still extremely conservative by modern standards.